I wasn’t walking closely with Him. Yes, I’d called myself a Christian since I was 14. Yes, I was going to church again. But I wasn’t in the Word.
I wasn’t seeking His voice.
Truthfully—I didn’t think I needed to.
My bookshelves were full of personal development wisdom that quoted Scripture (out of context). My business was thriving—built from vision boards and dream lists filled with my desires.
I thought I was walking in purpose… But I was living a counterfeit calling.
I was operating in my gifts—but detached from the Word of God and void of the Spirit’s transforming power.
It was the enemy’s most subtle scheme:
To keep me distracted in success,
Deceived in self-sufficiency,
And disconnected from the true assignment on my life.
Because gifts without God will never break chains. And calling without consecration won’t carry Kingdom weight.
But God, in His mercy, had another plan.
For six months, He kept whispering… Gently, persistently, lovingly:
“You teach on self-worth,
but they will never find it within themselves.
True worth is found in Me alone.
And daughter… even you haven’t fully found it yet.”
I knew at that moment it was god speaking.
when he spoke those words they struck deeply. because they were true.
You see, my signature program used to be called Finding Your Worth From Within.
It was designed to help women break free from lies, insecurity, and low confidence—guiding them back to their “true self.”
I taught it across 52 countries—on an online TV show, in global workshops, courses, and retreats. And the results were undeniable.
Testimonials poured in from women who felt seen, healed, and empowered.
But here’s the truth:
My worth still wasn’t rooted in God. It was anchored in the success.
Found in the testimonials and every other 'self-led' validation I had intentionally created to 'feel' more confident in who I was —designed to feel empowering, but ultimately governed by the flesh. I was operating in my gifts, but outside of God's authority.
Despite the incredible work I felt I was doing, I began to realise there was a depth of transformation I couldn’t lead people into - without God.
After this realisation - things began to shift rapidly.
I started questioning what I taught and felt I was not providing people with the whole truth.
Where I once stood so strongly on my work; now I couldn't bring myself to teach at all.
I had no idea what was going on...
the 'old me' who thought she had it all figured out 🥴
He was calling me into His truth, yet I still held on...
At first, I dismissed the whisper.
That gentle nudge—the still, small voice—felt easy to overlook.
But then… God intervened.
Within six months, everything I had built began to unravel.
Programs that once filled effortlessly now sat empty.
The fire I once had for my work faded.
My health crumbled.
My income stopped
.
And I was left in a cloud of confusion, unaware that it was God's mercy—His hand, not His absence.
I had forgotten the whisper I once silenced.
A whisper that wouldn’t fully make sense… until six years later.
At the time all my techniques, certifications, and training couldn’t get me out of the absolute mess I found myself in.
Because this wasn't something to fix.
This was something to surrender to.
It was the beginning of the end of myself —
And the divine undoing that would lead to everything holy and whole.
One day, in complete desperation, I cried out to God,
“Teach me Your ways, because mine are clearly not working. If You do, I promise to follow them—and I will teach others.”
God revealed that my self-worth had been deeply entangled with my work, my pursuit of success, and the constant craving for more—driven not by purpose, but by unhealed wounds and buried trauma.
When I shut down my YouTube channel and deleted my website, it felt like erasing my entire identity. Who was I without my business? Would anyone see the years of sacrifice and striving that built it all? I had no idea this was an issue - it was.
But in His mercy, God began to uncover the deeper roots: spiritual strongholds of bondage, striving, self-sufficiency, and independence that had quietly shaped my habits, decisions, and mindset.
God wasn’t interested in my success;
He was interested in my heart.
I would spend the next five years focusing on my role as a wife, mother and homemaker.
No business. No success. No website or online accolades. We moved state and no-one knew who I was or my background. I was stripped of EVERY part of my 'well-constructed' 🤣 self-image and self-led life - zilch, nada, nothing...
What I thought was a fall from grace, turned out to be a fall into grace.
Over nearly six years, God lovingly unraveled the false self I had constructed—the self-built image created to chase a 'self-led' life I believed would bring happiness, security, provision and success.
But healing didn’t come through more coaching tools, strategies, or self-help. It came through surrender.
Just me, His Word, and the quiet place—where the Holy Spirit gently led me back to truth.
Though I had been a Christian since I was 14 and grew up as a pastor’s daughter, I came to know God in a way I never had before—personally. I heard His voice. I felt His nearness. And for the first time, I experienced the kind of love that completely unravels you.
Then God spoke...
'A reformation in the Coaching Industry'
After six years in the wilderness (yes, six years!)...it came out of nowhere and stopped me in my tracks.
When he had my attention, he continued...
‘You used to use tools and techniques…’
He was referring to the certifications I had studied - Mind Detox Therapy, Life Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, EFT, Positive Psychology
‘NOW you’ll use My Word & My Spirit’
He restored my business —but this time, entirely Holy Spirit-led.
I no longer build for myself; I build for His Kingdom.
My coaching is not strategy-first—it is Spirit-first.
I am here to equip, mentor, and intercede for the women God is raising up in this hour—to step into their Kingdom assignment with full confidence, clarity, and peace.
I walk with them through the deep inner work of healing, deliverance, and realignment so that they can step fully into the abundant life God has for them.
Because the world needs more Kingdom women leading from purity, presence, and power.
This is my assignment ⚔️
JESUS
can't live without
(if this isn't you, i can't wait to for god to reveal this to you)
CURRY
favoUrite FOOD
GARDENING
CURRENT HOBBY
WOMEN KNOWING GOD
PASSIONATE ABOUT
INVESTING
CURRENTLY LEARNING ABOUT
i'm thankful you are here.
Maybe you’ve walked through confusion, compromise, and a deep deconstruction—wondering why you suddenly feel like a stranger in a world you once belonged to.
You’ve tried the surface solutions. You’ve followed the steps. But still, something holy stirs beneath it all—a discontentment you couldn’t quite name.
That ache?
It’s heaven’s invitation.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken.
You’re being called out. Set apart. Drawn into the arms of a holy God.
This isn’t the end—it’s the beginning.
God is gently removing what was never His to begin with and uncovering the woman He authored from the very beginning.
There is freedom for you.
Healing for you.
A holy assignment with your name written on it.
You’re not behind. You’re being prepared.
The wilderness has purpose.
And on the other side of surrender is your commissioning.
"The TRUE BEAUTY of a woman is her KIND heart and GENTLE spirit."